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Wednesday, September 18, 2013

MUME ANASA PICHA ZA UCHI ZA MKEWE AKIWA NA MWANAUME MWINGINE

                  Mke wa mtu, Rehema Mboje akiwa amelala gesti.

Mwanaume mfanyabiashara wa jijini Dar aitwaye Joseph Mboje, amenasa picha za mkewe aliyemtaja kwa jina moja la Rehema akimtuhumu kusaliti ndoa yao na mwanaume mwingine. 
Mboje alidai kuwa kwa muda mrefu alikuwa akimhisi mkewe ‘kucheza nje kapu’ na mwanaume mwingine ambapo katika pekuapekua yake ndipo akanasa picha hizo kwenye simu yake kabla ya hivi karibuni kutengana kabisa.

  
Kwa mujibu wa Mboje, baada ya kumgundua na kunasa matukio yake na mwanaume nje ya ndoa hasa gesti, mkewe huyo aliondoka nyumbani maeneo ya Manzese, Mtaa wa Sisi-Kwasisi, Dar, bila kujua alikohamia lakini alipofanya uchunguzi akabaini ana mwanaume mwingine.


“Sikuacha kupeleleza, nikaambiwa na mtu wangu wa karibu kuwa chanzo cha mke wangu kuondoka nyumbani ni kijana mmoja tuliyewahi kumwajiri katika biashara zetu,” alisema Mboje.
 Rehema Mboje akiwa na mwanaume mwingine
  Huku akizungumza kwa uchungu, jamaa huyo alisema kuwa kijana huyo aliletwa na mkewe kama meneja wa baa yao iliyopo Kinondoni-Mkwajuni, Dar lakini baada ya muda aliona mabadiliko makubwa kutoka kwa mkewe, jambo lililomshtua kwani alianza kuwa mlevi wa kupindukia na kurudi nyumbani usiku wa manane.


Alidai kuwa baada ya kushtuka, alimuuliza mkewe huyo kuhusiana na hali hiyo ya kuvuka kiwango hadi kujifotoa akiwa na mwanaume nje ya ndoa lakini alikana.
  
Mboje alidai kuwa aliendelea kufuatilia nyendo zao kwa kipindi cha miaka mitano, mwaka wa sita ambao ndiyo huu, mambo yakawa wazi kuwa mkewe wa ndoa aliyedumu naye kwa miaka 17, anatembea na kijana huyo aliyemtaja kwa jina moja la Lwalwai.
  
“Nimeumia sana, sikutarajia kama mke wangu anaweza kunifanyia hivi,” alisema.


Rehema alipotafutwa  alianza kwa kumkandia mumewe na kusema hamtaki tena.
  
Alipobanwa na wanahabari wetu, alikiri kuwa Mboje alikuwa mumewe na kwamba amezaa naye watoto wawili na kuishi pamoja kwa miaka 17 kabla ya ndoa kuvunjika.

Alisema kwa sasa maisha aliyoamua kuishi anayajua mwenyewe hivyo kila mtu achukue hamsini zake.
  
Mwanamke huyo pia alikiri kuwa na uhusiano wa kimapenzi na Lwalwai tangu kipindi cha nyuma na hii yote alifanya kutokana na tabia za mumewe ambazo hakutaka kuziweka wazi.
  
Alisema kwa sasa anaishi peke yake na kama huyo mumewe ataanza kumfuatafuata huenda akaamua kuolewa na Lwalwai.
  
Kwa upande wake, Lwalwai alisema kuwa ni kweli alikuwa na uhusiano na Rehema lakini hakujua kama ni mke wa mtu ndiyo maana alikubali kushirikiana naye kimapenzi pamoja na kuwa alikuwa anafanya kazi kwake.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

7 Sex Positions Men Love

The bedroom moves that men love: try these sex positions tonight.

Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Make his night and drive him crazy with these sex positions that men love. Ultimately, sex is about love and intimacy, so while the positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways.

1. Woman on Top: Ask your guy what drives him crazy in the bedroom, and we're betting he'll say it's pleasing you. This sexy position puts you in the driver's seat, and that's exactly where he wants you. Take advantage of being in control and set the pace according to what you like, leaving his hands free to roam. The bonus? He loves having your curves in full view…so flip on the lights and give him a show.

2. Missionary: This standard go-to is a favorite because it puts him in control, while still being intimate: your hips are free to do all the work, and you can lock lips and eyes with ease. And while he's in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together. If you want him to go slower or deeper, put your hands on his hips and guide him. The best sex is like a conversation, and missionary allows you to communicate with your bodies.

3. Reverse Cowgirl: This reverse variation of the woman on top position is the best of both worlds for your guy. It gives him the sexy view he gets during doggie style but it puts you in control. This position doesn't allow for a ton of touching or eye contact, but it's a nice contrast to some of the more classic, romantic positions. If you're craving a connection flash a look back at him while you're doing your thing—it'll drive both of you over the edge.

4. Doggie Style: This rear entry positions puts him in control, allowing him to call the shots and to go at the speed that's best for him. Plus, it allows for deeper penetration, making him feel like king in the bedroom. Some women love the intense full feeling, but if it feels like too much, let him know. Communication is key to enjoying sex and experiencing the full psychological benefits of physical intimacy.

5. Standing Up: Getting it on while standing up is probably not your go-to move, but it's perfect for that sweaty, gotta-have-you-now sex that'll make him feel irresistible. Whether he's bending you over the new kitchen table or you're steadying yourself against the wall, this spontaneous position is perfect for a quickie.

6. Spooning: Sex while spooning is the ultimate intimate position, and a go-to for when you're feeling lazy and affectionate. Not only does it give him total access to your bod, it also frees your digits up so that you can give yourself a hand, a move that's sure to drive him wild. Make it even hotter by twisting your body and head slightly towards him so you can smooch while his hands roam. Afterward you can slip into an easy, snuggley sleep.

7. The Lap Dance: Pull up a chair and have him take a seat while you get on top. He'll love the look and feel of you straddling him, and having you in control will help him last longer, too. A bonus? Unlike the standard woman-on-top position, this ones allows for you to stay super close, kiss, and make eye contact. Plus, he still gets to be aggressive with his hands, tugging on your hair, rubbing your back, and pulling you closer.

Monday, September 16, 2013

How To Make Your Girlfriend To Want To Make Love With You

You've been dating your girlfriend for a while and are ready to made love. You're pretty sure that she's ready, but you want to know how to make her want you without pressuring her or coming on too strong. If you want to make your girlfriend want to made love with you, you have to first make sure she's ready. Then, you can build her trust, treat her well, and turn her on to get her in the mood and mindset for having sex with you. If you want to know how to make your girlfriend want to made love with you, just follow these steps.





Be Dependable

If you want to make your girlfriend want to made love with you, then you should show her what an amazingly dependable guy you are. If your girl is going to trust you enough to made love with you, whether it's her first time or if she's had sex before, then she has to feel like she can depend on you. One of her fears may be that as soon as you made love, she won't be able to rely on you anymore because you would have gotten what you wanted. So, prove her wrong by being an upstanding and dependable guy.
Show up when you say you're going to show up. If you routinely pick her up half an hour late for your dates, she'll think that you don't think she's so special, and she'll be less likely to made love with you.
Don't be a flake. If you say you're going to take her to the beach over the weekend, do it. If you don't stick to your word, she won't be able to trust you.

1   Be her rock. Let her talk to you about her problems and insecurities while knowing that you can make her feel better.
Don't go hours or even a day or two without returning her phone calls or texts. This will make her feel like she can't depend on you.

2   Give it time. Some guys can be ready to made love with a girl in the time it takes to down a beer, while some girls can take months, or even longer, to decide that they're ready to make love. And some girls -- sorry, gentlemen -- are really adamant about holding out for the one, and don't even want to made love before marriage. So, don't rush into it -- wait for the girl to trust you first.
If your girl is barely comfortable with kissing, then you shouldn't bring up the "s-word" for a while.
However, if you and your girlfriend are already comfortable hooking up in bed all the time after just a few weeks, then you can start thinking about taking it to the next level.
If you want to make your girlfriend want to made love with you, the worst thing you can do is bring it up or try to force it when it's way too early. This will turn your girlfriend off and will make her much less likely to sleep with you.

3   Don't act like you're obsessed with sex. Let's face it -- if you're a male of a certain age who is desperate for his girlfriend to made love with him, then you probably are obsessed with sex. But that doesn't mean you have to make jokes, innuendos, or even blatant references to sex all the time. The last thing you want your girlfriend to think is that you're a horn dog who is so obsessed with sex that you don't care which lady comes into your bed. You should make her feel special, like you want only her.
You don't have to hide the fact that you're a man with needs, but you should avoid being vulgar, talking about sex all the time, or talking about other people who made love all the time.
Don't make derogatory comments about other women. This will make your girlfriend feel like a piece of meat. Remember that you're not with your bros, but with your special lady.

4   Be loyal. If you want to make your girlfriend trust you, then you have to be loyal to her. She'll never made love with you if she thinks you're talking to or checking out other women, or even hanging out with other women. Though you don't have to be rude to or ignore other women, you should have a laser-sharp focus on your girlfriend so she knows that you will always be there for her, especially after you start having sex.
Spend lots of time with her. Make sure that you plan at least one or two dates every week, and that you check in with her at least once a day if you're not together.
There's a difference between being loyal and being possessive and smothering your girlfriend with affection. You should make a point of seeing her when you both want to hang out, but don't try to see her 24/7 or she'll begin to pull back.
You should not only show your girl that you're loyal by being loyal to her, but by showing that you're a loyal sibling, friend, and teammate. Show loyalty in many aspects of your life and your girl will be impressed.



Treat Her Well

1   Treat her like a lady. If you want your girlfriend to made love with you, then you should treat her like a lady, not just like someone you want to hook up with. To do this, you have to be a gentleman and be courteous, kind, understanding, and generally admirable. Open doors for her, give her your coat when she's cold, pull out chairs for her, and help her carry her heavy bags.
Make sure to compliment her to let her know how great she looks or how special she is.
It's important to be a gentleman, but don't do anything that feels too unnatural to you, or she'll be able to tell that you're not being yourself.

2   Clean your home. This may sound silly, but if you want your girlfriend to really feel special, then you shouldn't invite her to hang out at your place if it looks like the set for World War Z. You need to make sure to remove any dirty laundry off your floor, clean your counters, and make your bed look and smell as clean and inviting as possible.
Not only will this make your lady feel special, but it'll make her feel more inclined to made love with you. She won't want to get it on if your bed is covered in candy wrappers and dirty underwear.
If you drive her around a lot, you should also keep a clean car. Give your lady the respect she deserves by making sure she has a clean seat.

3   Show an interest in all of her -- not just her body. Your girl's biggest fear may be that you don't care at all about her mind because you're too busy obsessing over her body. So, you have to prove her wrong. Show her that you are about who she is as a person, about her hopes and dreams, and about what makes her tick.
Ask her about her friendships, her childhood, and her favorite experiences.
Show her that you value her opinion. Ask her what she thinks about the current political situation in your state, or about the state of your new outfit.
Make eye contact when you talk to her. Show her that everything she says is important to you.

4   Take her out on romantic dates. If you want to build the sexual tension, you have to build the romance first. Make her feel special by taking her out, dressing up, and picking a romantic spot for dinner, a drink, or even just for stargazing. You don't have to do anything corny or out of your element to make her feel special.
Though you and your lady can have fun at baseball games, birthday parties, or at a loud, sweaty concert, these events will be less conducive to lovemaking.
Doing something romantic once in a while will show your lady that she really matters to you.

5   Be attentive to her needs. If you're not attentive to your lady's everyday needs, then how will you be attentive in the bedroom? Your girl needs to feel like you know when she's sad, nervous, anxious, or even just cold or hungry. Pay attention to her eyes, her body language, and her words to know if there's something bothering her. If you act completely oblivious when she's obviously upset about something, then she'll think you're not really paying attention to her.
If something's wrong, don't be afraid to ask her what's up. This will only show that you care.

6   Make sure she's ready to made love. If you really want to treat your lady well, then you have to be able to have an idea about whether or not she's ready for sex. If you're her first boyfriend, if she's sexually inexperienced, or if she's deeply religious or has other moral convictions that make her steadfast about not having sex, then you should back off and wait for her to trust you enough to even consider having sex with you. But here are some ways to know if she does want to made love with you:
If things have been getting hot and heavy in the hook up department, then she may be ready to move forward.
If she's been talking about sex, giving you sexual compliments, and touching you a lot more, then she may be ready for sex.
If she's been hinting that she wants to sleep over, spends a lot of time in or near your bed, or invites you over late at night, then she may be ready for more intimacy.
If she has deep moral or religious convictions that make her not want to made love, don't try to force it. Accept that some girls will never made love until they're married, and that there's nothing you can do to change that.



Turn Her On

1   Be prepared. If you plan on trying to made love, or even talking about having sex with your girl, then you should be prepared with some condoms in case the mood strikes her. This doesn't mean that you should flash the condoms or make her feel uncomfortable, but it does mean that you should have some backup just in case things do go in a favorable direction.
If she wants to made love and you have to run out to the drug store for some condoms, this may make your first sexual experience fall flat.

2   Set the mood. If you want your girl to made love with you, then you have to set the mood. You should start the evening by doing something romantic to soften her up. Then, go back to your (clean) apartment, which should be stocked with red wine, grapes, chocolate, and some light jazz on the radio. Light the candles and turn the radio on to get her in a romantic mindset, and offer her something to eat or drink.
If this feels corny, you should only do what makes you both get in the mood. If you just want to dim the lights instead of lighting candles, then that's fine too.

3   Kiss her. If you want your girl to made love with you, then you have to be a master kisser. Even if you've been kissing for a while, you should still know how to kiss her in a variety of ways and make your kisses feel fresh. Don't overwhelm her and grope her the second you lock lips. Instead, take it slow, grazing your lips as you touch her hair or stroke her face.
Take breaks from kissing so she has time to come up for air and want you even more.
You are not very likely to made love with your girlfriend if all you've done is kiss. It takes a bit longer for things to reach a natural progression.

4   Play hard to get. If you really want to make your girlfriend want you, then you shouldn't act like a sexual beast, moving rapidly from kissing to touching, to ripping off your clothes and practically levitating into the bedroom. Instead, you should kiss your girlfriend for a few seconds, then hold back, stroke her, and talk to her. Repeat this move a few times and wait for her to go wild.
Why does playing hard to get work? Because this will make your girlfriend feel like you like her, but that you're in control of your desires and aren't desperate to get your hands all over her -- even if you are.
This move will make her want to be the one who asks for more.

5   Touch her. If you want to turn on your girlfriend, you can start thinking about doing more than just kissing. Begin by lightly caressing her arms, the back of her head and hair, and then, as things progress, stroke her breasts under her shirt or wait for her to touch you. If your clothes are off or partly off, you can kiss her breasts or touch her through her underwear to get her in the mood.
Just make sure that your actions are reciprocated -- if you're touching her and she just lies there and doesn't make noise or do anything, then you're probably making her uncomfortable. Make sure she's ready for more before you proceed.
If you're already in the bedroom and hooking up, then you can simply ask her if she's ready to made love with you. This doesn't have to be elaborate or corny -- just say, "Are you sure you're ready?" and be prepared for any answer.

6   Don't ever pressure her. If your girlfriend says she's not ready to made love with you, then you shouldn't pressure her. Don't try making any arguments -- saying things like, "But we've been together for so long," "Everyone else is doing it," or "But I really, really like you," isn't going to make her feel any better. In fact, trying to reason with her will only make her more frustrated, annoyed, and much less likely to sleep with you.